Lasting longer during sex - How? 12 posts

OP Wed Feb 06, 2013 6:07 am
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Alright guys, we all know we do it. Two minutes into sex, that sweet little girl beneath you lets out the most sensual of moans and you want to release right then on the spot. How do you hold yourself back and keep the moment going?

I have a few techniques that I like to use:
1) start off with oral / fingering on her if she lets you, to get those initial moans out of the way ... get her closer to satisfaction before sex even starts
2) start slow and gentle; do not pick up the pace till her hips are practically begging for it, else you will rush towards the end and lose control; you can always get rough and fast later on if that is what she is in to
3) try to name all of the books in your favorite saga in order (Harry Potter works well for me); other memory games work just as well
4) clench your ass checks as you thrust forwards and hold it there for a second when you feel like you are about to cum (the ass muscles contract during ejaculation, so contracting them the split second before can stop / post pond an ejaculation by confusing the muscles into thinking it has already happened) [This also works with muscles at the base of the penis, but unless you train those .... they are hard to control]
5) change positions to give your cock a few seconds of break
6) try to masturbate within a few hours before sex, so you are not needing a release as badly
7) Use the backwards thrust technique to keep the motion going, but less sensation on your cock (push in slowly and pull back fast)
8) Instead of thinking of pleasuring yourself / releasing during sex, concentrate on the goal being her pleasure ... that is all you are there for; yours will come naturally so it is not something you need to think about

Some people say to think of something disgusting during sex (old ladies knitting and baseball), but that ruins it for me and makes me loose my hard-on.
Some people also say to put a little oral numbing gel into your condom, but again ... that ruins it because now you can not feel your dick. (Trojan longer lasting condoms work the same way, except they numb both partners)

So, what are your ejaculation preventions if you are not ready for the fun to end yet?
Personally, I would like to just continue fucking after I ejaculate, but my partner insists on changing the condom so it does not bust .... which kind of just ruins the mood if you have to fiddle with a condom for a minute .... and once you loose your hard-on after ejaculation ... it is kind of gone for at least a good 20 minutes ... by which time she is asleep or doing something else ....
Mon Dec 23, 2013 11:55 am
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Thanks for the techniques, Don Von.

In addition, "if you're overheating during sex, stop and squeeze right below the head of your penis, focusing the pressure on the urethra (the tube running along the underside of the penis). This pushes blood out of the penis and momentarily represses the ejaculatory response." This also works for me...
OP Sat Sep 13, 2014 9:36 pm
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New tip, use the extra thick strength Life Style condoms: http://www.condomdepot.com/product/deta ... 6/pid/2235

They are the thickest condoms on the market.
Sun Sep 14, 2014 3:08 am
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i extended the animation time....... :D
OP Sun Sep 14, 2014 5:59 am
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mcdouche wrote:
i extended the animation time.......


Increasing the number of loops would work too.
Tue Mar 10, 2015 8:34 am
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I tought the topic is for IMVU :) thanks for real life advice
Wed Jun 22, 2016 11:42 am
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Using a cock ring or pressing the base of the urethra just up your balls when you feel like you're going to cum (not right when you'll cum but a bit before it) will calm it down for a bit too.
Wed Jun 29, 2016 7:22 pm
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All good until you find some nympho lol
Mon Jan 30, 2017 6:54 am
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wow interesting....here funny joke people used to say....if it goes in it will never come back out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL good advice bro but what if you shy type of guy but sametime deep inside of you ur straight out freak until person knows how to turn you on?
Wed Apr 03, 2019 7:24 am
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Yeah i been wondering that too 'Shy Guy' and such professional tips, I'm amazed by the way you contributing/contributed Don, amazing, I tried this "try to masturbate within a few hours before sex, so you are not needing a release as badly" it helps but as soon as we started i couldn't control, lost my flow and my game got over, Her words..... "that's all?".... after that i realized that if i skip for 1 or 2 days without sex/masturbate then i last longer then my usual time and i think good eating habits also decide about your longer sex time and without any stress in mind

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