Lost my gf cause of bullies.

TSSYunaXTiDus
by TSSYunaXTiDus · 9 posts
6 years ago in Help & Support
Posted 6 years ago · Author
Hi ImvuMafia, i'll request your help because i'm getting bullied for no reason. I've lost my gf cause of that. Can anyone help me to stop this ? I will propably buy you 10k credits if you help me
Posted 6 years ago
This is IMVU? isn't it kinda normal that things like this happens? I've been on IMVU for a while and people leave and go it's the way that IMVU rolls it's not hard to find someone else... if this is RL than sorry, but don't think this is a issue that they will deal with. Although I wish you the best of luck if someone does come and help you.
Posted 6 years ago
Well if she left you just because you were getting bullied rather then standing up for u then sorry mate she isn't for you. Find someone better
moreover that could be an excuse just to break up with u so that she can go with someone else.

This is imvu things like this a very common.
Posted 6 years ago
Adryan is correct, all we can do is repeat the same advice we've given everyone else. If you follow our advice and strengthen yourself as a person you'll find it is much less of a problem than you thought.


R3X is correct as well. If she left you because you were getting bullied then she wasn't someone you want to be with anyway. That may not what you want to here but it's much better for in the long run to move on rather than trying to get her back. You'll end up being much happier.
Posted 6 years ago
Greetings.

You need to learn how to not let 'bullies' affect you. Just a simple switch of mindset is all I (And many others before and after me) needed to stop looking at these people as bullies, and see who they really are: People who are insecure and weak in themselves. It sounds childish, but it really is true. You need to step up and be the bigger person, by not letting silly insults and abuse be a problem. Find a good circle of friends to help and support you, and then you can all just laugh at whoever tries to mess with you. Community is a force which is so often underestimated. If you have good friends, you have good forces.

I also agree with R3X: If she left you because you were getting bullied (Translation: She left you because she saw that others didn't accept you) then that's not a healthy relationship in the first place. I wouldn't be too worried about losing her, if I were you.

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Ice.
Posted 6 years ago
Diplomacy, understanding, and compromise are the best tools of vengeance.
Posted 6 years ago · Author
Thank you everyone, i'll try to ignore them but it is really hard for me.. Muting them with imvu lite working only for one room.. Any tips to mute them definitly ? :/
Posted 6 years ago
TSSYunaXTiDus wrote:
Thank you everyone, i'll try to ignore them but it is really hard for me.. Muting them with imvu lite working only for one room.. Any tips to mute them definitly ? :/


Create your own room, block them, and boot them.

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