Honestly? Chat with people who are not the typical deformed types with impossible bodies and who think they are better than others for looking like aesthetics. I am not new to imvu but my avatar is simple and I would say that even "normal" I enter only to meet people and I have made good friends inside, but I have also met toxic and immature people. I would say that what I enjoy the most is that, chatting with someone who offers me a good talk, that for me is the most important thing.